Confessional will usually take place in a confessional (the booths used in movies and on television) anonymously behind a screen although you can also chose to make your confession face-to-face if you wish.
In terms of the structure/script within confession.
1 - Before going to confession the confessor should prepare by an examination of conscience, essentially preparing what it is you will be confessing and when you last confessed.
2 - When you enter the confessional the priest will greet the confessor with the sign of the cross. The confessor will then make the sign of the cross themselves and say
‘Bless me Father for I have sinned. It has been [insert time duration here] since my last confession. These are my sins…’
3 - The confessor will then tell the priest their sins.
4 - When the confessor has finished telling their sins they say
‘I am sorry for these sins and all the sins I cannot remember’
5 - Having heard the sins the priest will offer advice to the confessor and a penance for them to redeem themselves. The penance varies greatly from priest-to-priest and sin-to-sin.
6 - The confessor will then perform an act of contrition for their sins, essentially a prayer.
My God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong
And failing to do good,
I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance,
to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Amen.
7 - The priest will then finish by saying
‘Your sins are truly forgiven. Go in peace.’
The confessor responds with
‘Thanks be to God’
8 - The confessor leaves the confessional and should perform their penance as quickly as possible.
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