It's not too cheesy, actually, as long as you do it right. I'll give you some hints after I answer your direct questions. First, background: I went to boarding school in the middle of nowhere, which is generally how boarding schools are, and unlike at public school the middle and high schools used the same facilities. It was a run-down little place in the desert.
1) Life is waaay different. You can't just go over to the mall with your friends. Hanging out with your friends takes on a totally different aspect-- you have to find ways of entertaining yourself outside of shopping or going to the movies or whatever. Examples: go biking. Go exploring [behind the old gym, there's ghosts!]. Hang out in Commons, which has a few couches and a snack bar. Hang out in the dorm. Persuade an adult with a car to take you off-campus [on WEEKENDS-- they'd never do it during the week]. About cars, too, seniors only have that privilege, and only day-students [i.e. not-really-boarding students, who go home at night.]
2) They're generally the same, in my experience. There was a lot of diversity at my school as far as... well... everything, so that made it really cool, but at the same time the jerky jocks still bonded, the Asians, the rodeo girls, the volleyball girls, and so on. Naturally.
3) Curfews at my school were as follows:
Weekdays-- Middle school: 9:30. Underclassmen: 10:00. Juniors: 10:30. Seniors: 11. Weekends-- move all one hour forward.
Internet access was VERY limited. A few coveted cord spots (generally snatched up by the middle schoolers at like 6 in the morning... obnoxious) in Commons, and a computer lab generally only open during school hours or when someone with a key felt like opening it.
5) Generally harder, or at least they're supposed to be. That doesn't mean they're good. That doesn't mean they're bad, either. I got a mixture of good and bad, but for the most part they were all very hard on me. College prep boarding school is meant to be rigorous. Again, though, just like in any school, the teachers sometimes suck.
6) A myth... for the most part. In girls' camp, nothing like that went on. In boys' camp, a lot of that crap happened because it was a hierarchy and it was sort of survival of the fittest, and they didn't want the misbehaving inner-city kids or Germans to go back to where they came from, so it just go worse.
Now, more things that might be useful! Or maybe not. But I have a wealth of information to share.
a. Stringent visiting hours, if any. I once sprained my hip and my guy friend couldn't help me to my bed because that would be breaking "major bounds," aka stepping foot inside an area that could get him expelled. Other examples: walking off-campus after dark, being in the opposite sex's camp for any reason except walking to somewhere else except during camp visiting hours. There's a neutral area between camps where people can be.
b. Gossip is MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR at boarding school. There's not much else to talk about. I know that I hate gossip and I still got pretty good at it there. Rumors circulate like forest fires, over and over and over, much more intensely than at public school. [Because in general boarding schools are pretty small--200, 300 students.]
c. Class attendance is very mandatory. Something like four unexcused absences and you failed the class. However, they liked sports people and let them off for any number of reasons remotely related to sports. On the topic of sports, it takes quite a van ride to get to anywhere competitive from a remote boarding school.
d. The cafeteria food still sucks.
e. Dorms vary in layout, but generally are suites with bunk-beds; two boarding roommates plus one day roommate who might stay for whatever reason on a weekend or for mandatory events. Dorm Hierarchy: There are "prefects," who basically are supposed to be dorm student leaders but generally don't do much of anything. There's a dean of residential life for each camp, then an administrative dean over them. The "principal" equivalent is called, variously, "headmaster" or "head of school" (never headmistress for a woman).
f. Advisors are an important part of boarding school life. At my school, we had advisee groups that met once a week at our advisor's house to eat dinner, generally caf-provided but sometimes homemade, and my advisor was really good for actual advice. Not all advisors are, though.
g. School parties are really lame. People never show up and even when they do there's a zillion chaperones for every attendant making sure nothing interesting happens. The same goes for prom, which is generally really, really lame (depending on the class who puts it on).
h. Slang seems more prominent at boarding school, at least from my experience in boarding vs. public. We like to be cool. Examples: "What time is it?" "5" (when we mean 2:05), "caf," and so on.
i. To get mail, people have individual mailboxes in a large compartmentalized area assigned to them for the year and they have a certain combo to that box. They then just get their parents to send mail to the school address with their name at the top. Pretty simple.
Well... if you have any other specific questions, let me know. I hope this has been helpful.
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