When I click on Frenzy Mail it gives me the message "you are not authorized to access this site". I am logged in when this happens and I have set up my account. Anybody else with the same trouble?

Ok, disregard the dumb question. I found the answer myself. In case there is another blonde out there with the same problem:
In edit profile you have to check the "allow frenzy mail" box to get access. Somehow I missed that section when I set up my account.

NaNoWriMo Winner 2004: Silicon Relationships
NaNoWriMo Winner 2005: A Day in the Life of Alien XYZ
NaNoWriMo Winner 2006: The Day After the Oil Crashed
2007: abducted by aliens without wifi, sorry.